Thank You For Visiting This Blog…  However, I have a more updated Blog where I share with you tips and resources about RELATIONAL MARKETING and how you can use technology to build and foster relationships with people you wouldn’t have been able to reach before.



Welcome to my Blog! After weeks of finagling with Go Daddy and WordPress, consulting with Jerry Chen and Javier Rivero-Diaz, tweeting with Yaro Starak, and tons tons of hours of trial and error, I AM PROUD TO FINALLY LAUNCH MY BLOG!!! And the best part? I created this blog and didn’t have to pay to outsource it!

Why did I choose to be known as “The Relational Marketer“? As far as I can remember, ever since I was about 8 years old, I have always been genuinely interested in people. I have always done my best to connect with them and didn’t really understand why. People have branded me as a people pleaser, “brown noser” and a naive person who seems to find the best in people everywhere. I was even told during a job interview for Philippine Airlines that “they can’t hire me because I smile too much”. Can you imagine an airline who can’t hire someone because she smiled too much?

Another thing that didn’t use to make sense for me before was that I seem to always get elevated to a leadership role or have leaders -everywhere I go – to take notice of me without me really putting much effort into it. Looking back, I realized one thing: the connections I have made in my life are all part of a Divine Appointment and I have been given this gift of connecting with people and a heart that finds the good in everyone so that I can fulfill what I believe to be my life’s purpose which is this:

To live a life of purpose and help others find theirs…
For my life to always reflect God’s joy and love
To help revive hope to the hopeless
To become unbelievably blessed so I can become a blessing

One of my most favorite quotes is by one of our most beloved President, Ronald Reagan – this is his epitaph on his tombstone at the Reagan Library in Simi Valley, CA.

I know in my heart that man is good, that what is right will always eventually triumph and that there is purpose and worth to each and every life.”

It is my greatest desire to be able to give value to those who take the time to get to know me and trust me. I know I will not be able to connect with everyone on a physical level but through this Blog and my other social media sites – I hope to interact with you, get to know you and be able to build meaningful relationships just the same.

I also realize that some people may not feel comfortable that I do consider God and my Savior Jesus Christ as my Senior Partner in my business. If you only knew how my life was before God knocked on the door of my heart, you will understand why I am passionate about sharing the joy and peace that can only come from Him!

I believe that everyone has a story and mine is a story of courage, determination, implementation backed by faith, hope and love. It is through relationships that I am able to fulfill my God-given purpose. It is through relatioships that we get to know people beyond the superficial level and it is in relationships that trust, success and collaborations stem forth.

Truly, I am proud to be The Relational Marketer, desiring success for others more than I want for myself and when everything is all said and you’re on your death bed, you are not going to be thinking about how much money you didn’t acquire – you will want to be surrounded by those whose lives are now better because of yours! Yes, IT’S ALL ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS!

January 27, 2009 is a milestone day for me because of 2 things. One, it’s my husband Gary’s 50th birthday and two, this is the day when I conquered my fear of not sounding perfect in front of the camera! Here’s a video that I hope will inspire those who are afraid to move forward because of fear. I would love to hear your comments and I’d appreciate it if you could take a few moments to say “hello” and let me know how this post inspired you!

“May All Who Sowed Into This Project, Be Blessed Beyond Measure!”

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Have you ever experienced a “fire in your belly”?  You know, a revelation that is so much more than just an “aha” moment? 

Well this weekend, God spoke loud and clear to me and created that incredible fire which I have never experienced before!

Three years ago, my focus was business, family then God.  After meeting Dani Johnson, I changed my priorities to God, family then business.  Since then, my family has experienced a major transformation!  We knew that God  is calling us for something greater and is educating us at warp speed!  Something that’s beyond what we can see!

Being new Christians, we pray to always seek God’s wisdom and to strengthen our faith that when information comes our way, that we will be able to discern if they are information God wants us to hear.

God has led me to my very first Joyce Meyer Conference in St. Louis, MO this weekend of Oct. 2-4, 2008.  A big blessing and thank you to my best friend Diane Barrett for always standing along side with me in my search for wisdom.  I am beyond grateful to my husband Gary, son Garrett and Mom Elena for always supporting where God is leading me to.  God has sent us a lady named Susie Vanker from Michigan whom Diane and I met on the plane on our way to Orlando, FL.  It was through her that we knew of Joyce Meyer’s conference!  Through her, we met our most amazing Sisters In Christ this weekend – wonderful ladies from Michigan and Chicago – Tonya, Sandra, Donica, Joanne, Liz and Aggy.

Shortly, I will be sharing my notes as I always do.  Meanwhile, I am still here at the Hampton Inn in downtown St. Louis, and I couldn’t resist writing about it.  It’s as if my hands are being led to share this weekend’s experience. 

Prior to this weekend’s experience, I have many questions about WHAT CAN WE DO TO SHARE HOPE IN GOD TO HIS PEOPLE?  What could I possibly do to even make a difference in the world and our current econmic and spiritual crisis?  I have always felt that I there is nothing I could possibly do since the situation is so confusing and beyond my comprehension.  I didn’t know where to start…

This weekend opened my heart, my eyes and my mind!  Prepare for my relentless pursuit of a LOVE Revolution!  I will be honored to have you pursue this with me!

Happy Monday! Replying to emails and DMs from the weekend. Rendering my Relational Marketing Secrets Special Report to send to my new http://www.RelationalMarketingSecrets.com subscribers! Creating some FB ads to launch my new and simplified “Like” Page – that is in synch with my Marketing Funnel! Woohoo! Forward movement is always good! How’s your Monday so far?

Back to the “drawing board” after an amazing Business Codex #BizCodex with Jorge Bueno and MaryAnne Morcos. Creating video modules for my program. For the new friends I connected with yesterday asking about my live event, please go to http://www.RelationalMarketingSecrets.com so I can send you free gifts and details on my event… Looking fwd to connecting with you!

Getting ready to head out to the Hilton LAX with Garrett to attend @JorgeBueno #BizCodex! Garrett is looking forward to meeting new people!

Getting ready to launch my new FB “Like” Page that’s in synch w/ my Marketing Funnel! Amazing what CLARITY comes after COMMITMENT! It takes time to create – Blog redesign, “assets” assessment, Special Reports, eBooks, Lead Capture Pages, Follow Up Messages, Sales Pages for my upcoming 2-day Live Event but it’s like building a store where people have already said “Yes, I need your product/service!” http://ht.ly/38YBg

Would love to have you join me on my 2-day Relational Marketing Secrets LIVE Training Event Hilton LAX, Dec. 4 & 5, 2010 http://ht.ly/38×88 – Are you ready to become the “Trusted Expert” whom clients will Like, Trust and Embrace, Increasing your Influence and Profits? I look forward to transferring my life’s experience so you don’t have to suffer looong learning curves and success delays! See you there!

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